This accusation is so beyond stupid, but typical when you consider the liberal times we live in. I haven't read the book, but judging from the passages I've seen it should be pretty clear that Melissa Gorga believes in certain traditional roles when it comes to marriage and sex. And if being submissive to her man makes Melissa happy then who is anyone to judge, much less make dumb accusation like this one?
Melissa Gorga, who stars on Bravo’s “Real Housewives of New Jersey,” is facing tough scrutiny since she and her husband Joe appear to promote marital rape in her newly published book.
In her book, “Love Italian Style: The Secrets of My Hot and Happy Marriage,” Mr. Gorga also contributes to the content, the Daily Mail first reported.
“Men, I know you think your woman isn’t the type who wants to be taken,” he wrote. “But trust me, she is. Every girl wants to get her hair pulled once in a while. If your wife says ‘no,’ turn her around, and rip her clothes off. She wants to be dominated.”
“Women don’t realize how easy men are. Just give us what we want,” he said.
The couple’s sex life has also faced scrutiny because Mrs. Gorga frequently mentions how arguments are swept under the rug with sex, or arguments start because there’s not enough of it, the report said.
“In the beginning, Joe wanted to have sex every single day, at least once, if not twice or three times…If I didn’t give it to him once a day, he’d get upset,” she wrote. “I can do something that pisses him off on a Monday, but if we had sex on Sunday night, it blows over more easily. But if we haven’t done it for two days and I give him attitude? It could be a huge fight.”
It’s also mentioned in the book that Mrs. Gorga has to be home when her husband gets home. Mr. Gorga wrote that marriage is about mutual respect.
“After a fourteen-hour workday, if a man comes home and there’s no dinner on the table, and his wife is on the phone, watching TV, or on the computer ignoring him, he won’t feel respected,” he wrote.
“I think it’s controversial in many ways because we do really live an old school type of marriage but with a modern twist,” Mrs. Gorga said in a recent interview with Entertainment Tonight.
The Gorgas have three children, and Melissa said she’s be happy to give the book to her daughter when she gets married someday.RELATED: Melissa Gorga Plays Jersey Trivia with Celebuzz
I can see why the accusations exist: “Men, I know you think your woman isn’t the type who wants to be taken,” he wrote. “But trust me, she is. Every girl wants to get her hair pulled once in a while. If your wife says ‘no,’ turn her around, and rip her clothes off. She wants to be dominated.”
ReplyDeleteMY OLD MAN PULLS MY HAIR HIS ASS IS GETTING PEPPER SPRAYED
ReplyDeleteI find her views horrible! No means No...not dominate me. If her marriage is so shallow she has to tell him no to get what she wants then I would say she is really insecure..and has a terrible manage. We teach our children no means no. If a female says no...then it is rape..not dominate me. She is pathetic. After reading different quotes form her book I have decided not to ever watch this show again or read this blog written by someone who is an idiot
ReplyDeleteMelissa Gorga is a fucking idiot!!! She's not half as attractive as she thinks she is either. Joe seems like a closet case too.
ReplyDeleteIt's a stupid accusation? You're fucking kidding me. It's "traditional" to force yourself on a woman when she says no? This is officially my last visit to this shitty cut and paste blog. Disgusting.
ReplyDeleteAnyone who thinks a happily married, educated woman/mother with 3 kids would write a book condoning rape is beyond stupid. Besides, read her book before you jump to conclusions--it's called "context". And either way you're obviously an idiot and I dont want idiots reading my blog anyway...so good riddance.
DeleteMelissa Gorga is educated???? Seriously? And you're calling someone an idiot? Isn't this your blog? A blog about the Real Housewives. You spend your free time being obsessed with the real housewives and you're calling someone else an idiot? Hahaha. Take a good look at yourself before you call someone a name.
Delete"Melissa Gorga is educated???? Seriously?" Right, she only has a B.A. in education and psychology--lets see your credentials "Anonymous". And OMG, like millions of other people around the planet I write a blog as hobby. I guess that makes all of us "idiots" in your book. And yet you keep coming back to take in my "obsession" with the Housewives, funny that.
DeleteSounds like you are taking personally...if you want to write a blog as hobby you better get a thicker skin
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Deletecan she even spell.......stupidddddddddd
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